Stanley had fathered three children with Joan during that time. The case centered on Peter Stanley and his partner, Joan, who had lived intermittently with Peter for 18 years. Until 1972, single men like Emanuel had no rights to children they’d fathered outside of marriage. Skylar on a shopping trip (Chris Emanuel) He didn’t anticipate a battle, and he didn’t want to feel as though he were sharpening his sword. The act of registering felt disloyal to him. Even though his girlfriend feared being cut off by her parents, he couldn’t imagine that they would actually make their daughter choose between staying in the family and giving her child up for adoption. Registering with the state wouldn’t guarantee him custody of Skylar, but at least he’d be notified and have a say in court.īut Emanuel insisted that he didn’t need to register. That’s when she learned about the South Carolina Responsible Father Registry, which, according to the state’s Department of Social Services, “gives a man who has fathered a child with a woman he is not married to the right to be notified when an adoption or a termination of parental rights action occurs.” Without the registry, his girlfriend could put the baby up for adoption without telling Emanuel about it. When they met her for the first time at Boo-Yah, the bar and grill Emanuel’s mother owned north of town, Thomason found Emanuel’s girlfriend “distant” and felt that “something was off.” “I think she’s going to give the baby away,” she told McKnabb.Īfter the encounter, Thomason started researching paternity rights on her own. It was around this time that Emanuel’s half-sister, Chelsea McKnabb, and her best friend, Jill Thomason, started having misgivings. He says they made plans for her to move in with him permanently at the end of the year.
So he posed the question to her, “If you ever had to give your baby up for adoption, you’re going to give it to me, right?” She said she would, but insisted that she had no plans to give the baby away. But he couldn’t erase the possibility from his mind. You should be ashamed of yourself.”Įmanuel’s girlfriend repeatedly promised him that she would never put their child up for adoption. She had confronted her daughter and, according to Emanuel, told her, “You’re pregnant by a nigger. Her mother had returned from vacation and a neighbor had told her about the pregnancy. One evening in August, Emanuel says his girlfriend called him, sobbing.
Emanuel’s girlfriend repeatedly promised him that she would never put their child up for adoption. Over the summer, Emanuel says he helped his girlfriend apply for Medicaid and for time off under the Family Leave and Medical Act. The baby was due in mid-February of 2014, and when a sonogram revealed that it was going to be a girl, they decided to name her Skylar. Still, he says, they settled into a routine, sharing the cost of doctor’s appointments and attending them together. But his girlfriend’s parents were still out of town, and she had yet to tell them about the pregnancy or the young man sleeping at their house. And in May, she took a home pregnancy test, which came out positive.Įmanuel says they were happy as they made a doctor’s appointment and began to plan a life together. When her parents were away for the summer, his girlfriend invited Emanuel to stay at her house for a while. But her affidavits and her text-message exchanges with Emanuel align with the key elements of his story: Their relationship began in February 2013, after months of friendship. According to the Aiken High School 2008 yearbook, he was voted “Most Attractive” and “Best Dressed.” Even his former English teacher Francesca Pataro describes him as a “ray of sunshine.” Emanuel says he’s “talked”-euphemistically speaking-with a lot of women: “Black, Puerto Rican, Egyptian, and Vietnamese.” But before he met this girlfriend, he says, he had never seriously dated a white girl.Įmanuel’s girlfriend didn’t respond to multiple interview requests, so some details of their relationship remain difficult to confirm. He was popular in high school and a state track champion. Nothing wrong with being friends.”Įmanuel, who is now 25, describes himself as a non-discriminatory flirt. He says he “wasn’t lonely, but everybody wants somebody. It took multiple attempts to get her phone number. She ignored him at first, and Emanuel saw it as a challenge. She was one of a handful of women on the job she was white and he was black. Christopher Emanuel first met his girlfriend in the fall of 2012, when they were both driving forklifts at a warehouse in Trenton, South Carolina.